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Jaadu Tona mindset of the “high tech” Indian internet industry

The internet industry in India may claim to be high tech but many companies lack scientific temper . If a sufficient number of blackmailers and extortionists gang up to make defamatory allegations of payment against an entrepreneur without any proof,they are automatically considered to be saints telling the truth. These blackmailers and extortionists do not have any kind of evidence or proof of payment,yet they have powerful backers to support their lies, and their statement is used to pass judgement on a person’s character and business. It is very easy to make allegations without proof against an entrepreneur, just to earn some easy money.

Similarly any one who claims to be involved in a business, is assumed to be telling the truth, without verifying the facts with the business owner. At a later date, it is proved that the liar has nothing to with the business, but instead of sacking the liar, the internet companies will continue to protect and promote the liar at the cost of the business owner, who is their loyal customer.

Science and technology relies on evidence and proof, but some Indian internet companies rely on gossip, speculation, similar to mindset of uneducated people believing in Jaadu Tona (black magic/superstition) many centuries ago. They protect and encourage these blackmailers and extortionists who make these blatantly false allegations against their customers without any proof, betraying the trust of their customers, who spend their hard earned money with them. Why is the internet sector in India so different from the engineering and finance sector, where no one can make an allegation/claim without any proof?

Double standards and hypocrisy

Most large companies like to boast how much extra efforts they make to retain female employees. But when it comes to a single woman entrepreneur who is their customer, these very companies, will make allegations without proof or checking properly , put the entrepreneur under a brutal surveillance which will destroy her reputation, business, savings and leave her penniless in her old age.

http://www.firstpost.com/business/from-tata-to-icici-bank-how-india-inc-is-retaining-women-886041.html

Rewarding betrayal

How do you deal with treachery?
Some companies will not hire such people, others will promote them, it is a reflection of the companies ethics and value systems.

We know a person so crooked that she will betray even her own trusting sister along with her crooked husband, and subject her to identity theft by claiming credit for work she does not do.

For this treacherous behavior she was rewarded with great power and responsibility. She now has powers of surveillance over her sister, monitors all activities ,can intercept emails, postal mails get diverted
She is also given control an army of micro-chipped humans who can make her sisters life miserable.

These are companies who promote those who betray their loyal customers, their unofficial motto is “we love frauds and liars”.

The after effects of betrayal

While betrayal is always an unpleasant experience,the effect of the betrayal on the betrayed person depends to a very great extent on the relationship with the person who has betrayed you. If it is a business deal, it is relatively easier to handle the betrayal as the loss is mainly financial.

Many times employees or people you hire for work betray you soon after you have paid them or entrusted them with an important assignment. One way to deter/prevent this kind of betrayal is by making these associates sign a non disclosure agreement. It also makes it difficult to trust people in future and hire new employees /contractors.

However, when it is a relative or a close friend who betrays you , it changes the outlook of the betrayed person towards life in general. The person whose trust has been betrayed becomes extremely cynical, and will find it difficult to trust or even become friendly with anyone for the rest of his or her life.

Surveillance of a single woman entrepreneur

This is an open letter to those who have put a single lady under surveillance for the last 2 years or more, harassed her and extorted money.
She has worked very hard to save money for her retirement, do you dispute this?
Most of the powerful people who have harassed her will get a pension after they retire, as an entrepreneur, the only source of income in her old age are her savings.
Those who trouble her also are married, and have children who are likely to take care , help financially when retired.
The surveillance footage was not kept confidential, it was leaked to criminals.
The criminals have used the surveillance to steal her laptop and taken it to Delhi.
A detective agency is demanding several lakhs just as fees to trace the laptop with a 50-100% success rate.
She is a hardworking entrepreneur, unlike you, she has no powers to harass anyone and extort money.
Why do you misuse your powers to harass her, while remaining anonymous?
If your actions are justified, can you face her directly?

Medical ethics

When a patient visits a doctor or dentist, they are not only spending their valuable time and money, they also are trusting the doctor blindly. Unfortunately there is no shortage of dentists and doctors who betray the trust their patients have in them. There is at least one dentist who stuffs cotton in place of silver fillings of a patient and gets away with it. A patients dental information is supposed to be confidential , but there seem to be many dentists who will reveal these details to unrelated persons or even the patients enemies who will misuse these details to harm the patient.

Dressing up / dressing well

People dress up/ dress well for different reasons such as:
1.they enjoy dressing up
2.If they have a spouse/boyfriend /girlfriend who they wish to impress.
3.company dress code if they are an employee of a company or attending a interview
4.To impress a customer, for a business owner meeting a customer or prospective customer.
5.For peer approval

A person being stalked or harassed for unknown reasons, survival/staying alive is a greater priority, so obviously he or she will not care about his/her appearance. One of the big advantages of dressing badly is that it gives a very good insight into the character of the person with whom one is dealing with. After all, everyone likes to be seen with a fashionable person. But without knowing the background of a person, it is incorrect to jump to conclusions about the knowledge and competence of the person, just based on his or her dressing style.

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Lack of humanity

A person considering an online career should be aware that many people and companies online are totally devoid of any humanity. Offline, if people see a single lady facing a problem, suffering,  at least some people go out of their way to help her, even if she is a total stranger.

Online , when powerful people see a single lady, who has spent a lot of her hard earned money with different internet companies(and also many years of her life), earning some money, they will put her under surveillance, will intercept her emails, delete files on her computer, try their level best to hack her computer and frame her for things she has never done.

Then they will expect her to “like” their girlfriends,wives and relatives ( who have not even spent Rs 10000 of their hard earned money on a website), teach them for free, form a company with them and make payments regularly to them. They will never have the courage to face her directly because their behaviour can never be justified publicly.

 

Handling betrayal

If a person is betrayed by a family member , in most Indian families, the family members will keep quiet since “family honour” is at stake.

However, while working in a professionally managed company, the attitude is just the opposite. If a person betrays the trust reposed in him or her, backstabs, cheats, lies or does not keep promises, the person betrayed is encouraged to speak out , tell everyone he or she knows about the betrayal.

This is a much better approach for several reasons which include :

  • People will know about the betrayal, the person behind it, so they will think twice about dealing with the betrayer.
  • If a person keeps quiet after being betrayed, the chances that he or she will be betrayed again are very high as people will take the individual for granted.
  • The person betrayed may get some compensation or redressal if he or she makes a noise about it. If no one knows about a problem, no one can help the affected person.
  • Telling others about the betrayal reduces the frustration and stress caused by the betrayal.

Betrayal by business associates

At times it is your business associates, vendors who will betray you.
If you a single lady, who has spent one crore rupees with the different internet companies in India and abroad, know more about certain aspects of the internet than almost anyone in the country(or the world) in a particular subject, not a single person in the internet industry will openly support you and you will be subject to identity theft and surveillance for years.

However, if you are young , good looking and a powerful person’s “girlfriend” or wife, you will have many supporters, even if you are mediocre with extremely limited knowledge of the internet.