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Lack of humanity

| September 19, 2012 | Comments Off on Lack of humanity

A person considering an online career should be aware that many people and companies online are totally devoid of any humanity. Offline, if people see a single lady facing a problem, suffering,  at least some people go out of their way to help her, even if she is a total stranger.

Online , when powerful people see a single lady, who has spent a lot of her hard earned money with different internet companies(and also many years of her life), earning some money, they will put her under surveillance, will intercept her emails, delete files on her computer, try their level best to hack her computer and frame her for things she has never done.

Then they will expect her to “like” their girlfriends,wives and relatives ( who have not even spent Rs 10000 of their hard earned money on a website), teach them for free, form a company with them and make payments regularly to them. They will never have the courage to face her directly because their behaviour can never be justified publicly.

 

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Handling betrayal

| September 15, 2012 | Comments Off on Handling betrayal

If a person is betrayed by a family member , in most Indian families, the family members will keep quiet since “family honour” is at stake.

However, while working in a professionally managed company, the attitude is just the opposite. If a person betrays the trust reposed in him or her, backstabs, cheats, lies or does not keep promises, the person betrayed is encouraged to speak out , tell everyone he or she knows about the betrayal.

This is a much better approach for several reasons which include :

  • People will know about the betrayal, the person behind it, so they will think twice about dealing with the betrayer.
  • If a person keeps quiet after being betrayed, the chances that he or she will be betrayed again are very high as people will take the individual for granted.
  • The person betrayed may get some compensation or redressal if he or she makes a noise about it. If no one knows about a problem, no one can help the affected person.
  • Telling others about the betrayal reduces the frustration and stress caused by the betrayal.
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