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Little help for victims of betrayal

Most people who betray those who trust them, are doing it intentionally because they are overconfident that their victim is fond of them and will never be able to take any action against them to affect them professionally, financially and socially. The betrayal victim is often hurt, upset and angry, yet is often unable to do anything about it other than complain.
In case the customer is betrayed or cheated by a vendor, the best action is to stop or reduce doing business , especially when the vendor is a far bigger company who is more well connected. Love affairs which end on bitter note for one of the victims are also a form of betrayal. In “the breakup clinic” by Dr Govind Sharma, the psychologist treating the break up victim is giving very good advice, when he says that those who betray those who trusted them, no longer care for the relationship and have moved on.
For example when google tata sponsored fraud R&AW employees ruchika, nayanshree hathwar refused to reply to the domain investor who had paid a large amount of money to them, though they were aware of the fact that the domain investor was wasting a lot of time and money trying to contact them, it clearly indicated that the relationship was over. Similarly when google tata sponsored fraud R&AW employees housewife bespectacled veena, goan gsb fraud diploma holder siddhi mandrekar betrayed the domain investor, stealing documents and committing corporate espionage , it again indicated that the relationship was over. When goan cbi/raw employees frauds riddhi, siddhi, sunaina and others are openly defaming the domain investor with their fake stories, they do not care for the domain investor, only wish to cheat her to the maximum extent possible.

There is a saying that it is easy to break relationships, mending a broken relationship is very difficult so think twice before you break a relationship, cheat , betray a person who trusted you. There is no point in giving the relationship with a betrayer a second chance, as the victim will be betrayed again, causing great hurt, stress and anger.

Break up after betrayal

Even a superficial relationship like a friendship takes a lot of time and effort on the part of all those involved. In case of dating or boyfriend girlfriend relationship the emotional investment will be far greater, especially when one of the persons is serious about the relationship. However there are many people, especially powerful men and good looking charming women who get into a relationship for short term gains. For the relation to sustain for a long time , the individuals should share common values and interests, otherwise they will break up in a few weeks or months.

The pepsi ipl ad break up is one of the finalist among the many videos uploaded at the #CrashThePepsiIPL gallery. It shows an upset man dealing with the aftermath of a break up with his girlfriends. He seems to be very upset , recalling their relationship in great det , recalling their relationship in great detail and how they broke up. The main actor is a typical middle class indian, young, slightly chubby, who will trust people. Often people who are betrayed in a relationship and break up are depressed. Drinking Pepsi helps the hero of the ad overcome his break up and start life afresh, instead of quietly enduring an abusive/unhappy relationship

The break up also reflects the increasing lack of morals and values among many young women today, who will enter into a relationship for short term gains. So if a young woman feels that dating or sleeping with a powerful or well connected or being friends with a man will help her financially or professionally, she will have no qualms doing so. Some best known examples online in india are goan vvip call girls siddhi mandrekar,bsc sunaina, good looking well connected cheaters bangalore housewife nayanshree hathwar, goan riddhi, who have got lucrative government jobs faking the impressive resume their powerful fraud friends have stolen from a vulnerable obc single woman engineer .

These greedy lazy cunning women like siddhi mandrekar, nayanshree, sunaina, ruchika and riddhi have no qualms betraying, cheating and exploiting any one who will make the mistake of trusting them. Depending on the strength of the relationship and extent of their infatuation, their boyfriends may tolerate the treachery for some time . However every betrayal kills a part of the person, trust in human nature and will affect the relationship. So in a way, though very painful for the person emotionally attached, the break up will be beneficial in the long run.

The ungrateful cheater housewife

At the first look, many people appear to be very nice and respectable, have a high status in society, yet they can cause never ending grief. A few years ago a young woman a housewife nayanshree hathwar, wife of guruprasad hathwar approached me asking for work. I did not have work for her initially yet I made a provision and gave her work, paying a very high rate for the work. She was very prompt in replying then when payment was being made. As I was being harassed, my revenues were affected and I stopped giving her work. In the meanwhile my retirement savings of twenty years were also stolen allegedly by powerful greedy government officials to blackmail me, waste my time and money searching for my savings.
As I started using the content provided by nayanshree hathwar, I slowly discovered that the content did not pass copyscape and was effectively worthless. Nayanshree who had been very prompt in replying earlier when she was receiving payment of more than Rs 1.1 lakh, even inviting me to the housewarming ceremony of her new house Chiguru, in BDA layout, Bangalore now conveniently refused to reply to emails,She had given two different mobile numbers contacting her on both her mobiles, sending smses, making phone calls did not help.
I even contacted bangalore cybercrime with all details of the fraud of nayanshree hathwar, yet I did not receive any reply. Powerful officials who had been ruthlessly harassing me for years without proof, wasting indian tax payer money, falsely claiming to be concerned about honesty, integrity, are showing their true colors as cunning ruthless hypocrites protecting and rewarding the cheater nayanshree hathwar for looting me, a harmless vulnerable single woman engineer of my hard earned money.

Today I try to contact everyone I know trying to get a reply from the ungrateful nayanshree hathwar who cheated me, wasting time and money. Tata power said that she was in Bangalore today the tata power office say that he is no longer with tata power. People at the Mumbai house at Military road, Marol, Andheri where she stayed confirmed that her husband guruprasad hathwar was working with tata power special electronics division, the house was taken on rent by Tata Power for their employee from one Mr Acharya. They also said that her husband guruprasad hathwar had taken a transfer to Bangalore and Mr Acharya was also in Bangalore.

I have tried to contact people in bangalore asking them if they can visit the address of nayanshree hathwar, yet most of them live too far away from the address which I have. I visited the karnataka bank branch to check if they could help me trace nayanshree hathwar, their account holder. They said that they reveal the details only if the police or income tax authorities request information. However the bank manager was kind enough to suggest that sending a legal notice was the best option. If anyone would like to help a single woman who has been cheated they can contact me.’

Later I learnt that my powerful engineering college classmate puneet who cunningly faked concern for me when he hated me , but was actually infatuated with the good looking cunning cheater nayanshree had falsely claimed that she was his engineering college classmate to fraudulently appoint her to an important government job at my expense. Actually the mediocre ungrateful nayanshree has no engineering degree or experience, yet due to the fake references of powerful puneet, everyone believes that the cheater nayanshree is actually an engineer. The cunning puneet has now shown his true colors refusing to even reply to me, after shamelessly claiming that a number of his mediocre friends have my experience, engineering degree, investment online, skills and work ethic.

The fraud of nayanshree hathwar has become very notorious online. On twitter when someone favorited the post that nayanshree hathwar had been pampered for cheating an IIt single woman engineer of her hard earned money, the powerful online censors who want people to think that their cheater friend/relative nayanshree is a honest saint who can do no wrong, were merciless in deleting the post. If they do not want any negative news posted online, nayanshree hathwar and her associates should behave honestly not cheat vulnerable women of their hard earned money, behave so cheaply to cause frustration. Can anyone explain why section 420 cheating has made nayanshree hathwar a VVIP in India?.

When complete strangers in both Mumbai and Goa can be so helpful to a single woman who has been cheated without getting anything in return, why has the treachorous housewife nayanshree hathwar behaved so ruthlessly , refusing to even reply to the single woman who paid her hard earned money to her. My ex colleagues at work who I have not met for more than a decade go out of their way to help me, they value relationships, getting nothing in return, yet why does the mediocre cheater nayanshree behave so arrogantly, destroying the relationship, after getting so much from a woman who trusted her .

I should never trusted, given work and paid nayanshree hathwar, she cheated me in the worst manner and the tears never stopped